We know from first-hand experience that travelling changes you as a person and opens your eyes to something you can’t describe until you’ve been there and done it. As a new traveller, it’s possible to fall into the tourist traps, or to accidentally disrupt local cultures and encourage negative activities. We know, we’ve done it! To make sure you don’t make the same mistakes many backpackers do, here are a few suggestions on what to do (and not do) whilst travelling through Asia.
Ask before taking photos
Many travellers like to think of themselves as semi-professional photographers. With travel blogging so popular and people becoming Instagram famous, who wouldn’t want to give it a go? We are! Getting that perfect snap is a must and this often includes photographing the local people. Okay so here’s the golden rule: ask before taking photos of people. Whatever it is you want to capture, either a traditional dress, the beautiful faces of the locals or children playing, never do it without asking, it’s just common courtesy. Nine times out of ten they will say yes and happily pose for you, but sometimes they just don’t want to be snapped, they are human after all.
We know what it’s like to be constantly photographed without people asking us, having travelled as a mixed raced couple in India. It gets tiresome and can even make you feel emotional. It goes without saying in Asia you will come across poor areas that you are not used to and it is heart-breaking witnessing poverty first hand, but be a little sensitive when taking your photos to send home. After all, these are just people just trying to get on with their everyday lives, however hard to believe that may be.
Don’t give money to street kids
As disheartening as it is, it must be stressed that the homeless street children in developing countries should not be given money. You will come across street kids throughout Asia’s popular backing destinations including; Cambodia, Thailand, India and the Philippines. It might not be what you want to hear but you must look at the bigger picture, especially as many of these children are often “working” for gangs. The money you give will not go to them and although you might feel like you’ve helped, instead you’ve only helped keep them in this situation. Instead of money it’s better to offer them food, drink or clothing, items that are useful to them but cannot be used against them.
Something even better than this, is to offer them your time. Talk to them, they’re children! Get to know their situation and find out how you can help. Being a foreigner in a developing country, you are likely to have a louder voice than others, especially with government officials as these countries depend on the expenditure of tourists to develop. When you return home, these memories will stick in your mind, do your research and support a legitimate charity or contact the relevant officials to try and make a difference, or better yet, spend your next adventure volunteering!
Respect temple rules
We all get carried away when travelling and that’s totally fine! If you can’t express yourself whilst backpacking then you may as well go home. However, it is paramount that you respect the cultures and rules of your environment to ensure you make the most of your experience without ruining it for others. Some of the mainstream hot spots include Angkor Wat (Cambodia), the Taj Mahal and the Golden Temple (India), The Big Buddha (Hong Kong) and Wat Pho (Thailand). However, it is often at the smaller temples that you come across stricter rules.
Wherever you are you should try to learn a few simple phrases and signs of respect such as putting your hands together when entering or leaving – Namaste! No photos means no photos even if you reckon it’s Instagram worthy – these are sacred places. If shorts are a no-no then wear a pair of suitable trousers or a sarong, and if it is a silent temple, don’t speak. If men and women are required to go through different entrances, do it. It’s not a lot to ask, especially when you’re visiting a place that will give you memories for a lifetime.
Don’t ride the elephants
When visiting places such a Bali, Thailand and India and you start to research things to do, unfortunately riding abused elephants in chains is still a top tourist attraction. Put simply, do not do it. No matter how well they are claimed to be looked after, they are not. Their spirits are broken in the process of training them to hold humans; they are taken away from their natural environments and forced to work. Elephants are endangered animals and will not be here forever. You can help prolong the lives of these gentle giants by not participating in this horrific activity.
We know you want to spend time with these beautiful creatures, we did too. We encourage you to volunteer with those elephants rescued from the tourist trade to give something back. There are many opportunities to visit elephant sanctuaries throughout Asia, but don’t just opt for cheapest or the one with the best salesman, please do your own research and select one that does actually support the endangered Asian Elephant. Many sanctuaries describe a safe haven for elephants but in reality they are chained, beaten and abused into submission.
We highly recommend Elephant Nature Park, where there are no chains, no cages, no cruelty, and the elephants roam about as they choose too. You are educated about the lives they have led and why they were rescued, whilst getting the opportunity to feed and observe their majestic ways. You get what you pay for in life and if you spend a little more, you can get the experience of a lifetime without adding to the misery of these incredible, endangered animals.
“If you reject the food, ignore the customs, fear the religion and avoid the people, you might better stay at home.” – James A. Michener
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