{"id":268300,"date":"2017-02-10T12:18:49","date_gmt":"2017-02-10T12:18:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.hostelworld.com\/blog\/i-love-you-but-travel-is-my-soulmate-an-open-letter\/"},"modified":"2023-11-29T19:31:17","modified_gmt":"2023-11-29T19:31:17","slug":"jeg-elsker-deg-men-reisen-er-min-sjelevenn-et-%c3%a5pent-brev","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hostelworld.com\/blog\/nn\/jeg-elsker-deg-men-reisen-er-min-sjelevenn-et-%c3%a5pent-brev\/","title":{"rendered":"Jeg elsker deg, men reisen er min sjelevenn – et \u00e5pent brev"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kj\u00e6re kj\u00e6re: et \u00e5pent brev til dem vi etterlater oss..<\/h3>\n

Da jeg fortalte dere at jeg skulle dra, visste jeg ikke hvor jeg skulle. Jeg visste bare at jeg m\u00e5tte dra.<\/p>\n

Du s\u00e5 p\u00e5 meg med et underholdt smil og tristhet i \u00f8ynene. Du ble forvirret av mitt begeistrede babbel om at jeg m\u00e5tte ut av komfortsonen og leve livet mitt. Var ikke livet allerede bra her?<\/p>\n

Jeg oppga en million grunner for \u00e5 rettferdiggj\u00f8re denne knuten i magen. Hjertet mitt lengtet etter noe nytt, land jeg aldri hadde sett og mennesker jeg aldri hadde m\u00f8tt. Det var ikke lett \u00e5 forklare. Jeg f\u00f8lte meg egoistisk. Kanskje jeg er egoistisk.<\/p>\n

Jeg snakket s\u00e5 kunnskapsrikt jeg kunne om de thailandske \u00f8yene jeg skulle l\u00e6re \u00e5 dykke rundt, fjellene jeg skulle bestige. Men jeg hadde ingen anelse. Det s\u00e5 du, og jeg vet at det bekymret deg. Du spurte meg om det virkelig var dette jeg ville. Jeg visste ikke, men jeg sa ja likevel.<\/p>\n

Vi snakket, men jeg hadde allerede bestemt meg. Du spurte meg hvordan jeg skulle gj\u00f8re det, og du lot meg bable i vei om busser, tog og budsjetter. For \u00e5 v\u00e6re helt \u00e6rlig ante jeg ikke hvordan jeg skulle overleve. Jeg var s\u00e5 redd for at jeg aldri skulle snakke med noen, at jeg skulle bli syk og alene, at jeg rett og slett ikke skulle klare det. Kanskje skulle jeg tilbringe et \u00e5r p\u00e5 ett vandrerhjem og dele inspirerende bilder jeg fant p\u00e5 Google.<\/p>\n

Til tross for all frykten st\u00f8ttet dere meg likevel. Dine oppmuntrende og kj\u00e6rlige ord ga meg gr\u00f8nt lys til \u00e5 jakte p\u00e5 eventyret. Reisen min hadde aldri blitt noe av uten dere, og det er jeg takknemlig for.<\/p>\n

Vi gr\u00e5t, vi klemte hverandre, vi delte brev og lovet \u00e5 holde kontakten. Allerede den gang visste vi innerst inne at ting aldri ville bli det samme igjen.<\/p>\n

Men jeg dro likevel.<\/p>\n

Jeg har l\u00e6rt at jeg kan gj\u00f8re det. \u00c5 reise er et privilegium som jeg er evig takknemlig for. All frykten forsvant, og den rene og skj\u00e6re undringen og friheten jeg f\u00f8ler hver eneste dag, er det jeg l\u00f8p til.<\/p>\n

Jeg vet at jeg har forandret meg, og jeg kunne ikke noe for det. Jeg er fortsatt meg selv, men jeg er ogs\u00e5 annerledes. Jeg elsker reiselivet mitt, og jeg har l\u00e6rt meg \u00e5 v\u00e6re tilfreds og i fred. Jeg misunner deg din iboende ro, men du m\u00e5 forst\u00e5 at jeg m\u00e5tte reise for \u00e5 finne min.<\/p>\n

Jeg elsker deg, men jeg elsker ogs\u00e5 \u00e5 reise.<\/p>\n

Xxx<\/p>\n

Les mer om gjesteforfatter Johanna Whitakers reiser og eventyr p\u00e5: visionsofjohanna.org<\/a> og hennes Instagram<\/a>! <\/em><\/p>\n

\ud83d\udcf7: @ic.theworld<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":163,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"hw_hurry":"","hw_related":"[{\"id\":268262,\"score\":0.6592000000000000081712414612411521375179290771484375,\"hook\":\"\"},{\"id\":1288734,\"score\":0.64519999999999999573674358543939888477325439453125,\"hook\":\"\"},{\"id\":268269,\"score\":0.63980000000000003534950110406498424708843231201171875,\"hook\":\"\"},{\"id\":266946,\"score\":0.66620000000000001438849039914202876389026641845703125,\"hook\":\"\"},{\"id\":1288213,\"score\":0.64629999999999998561150960085797123610973358154296875,\"hook\":\"\"},{\"id\":274015,\"score\":0.64049999999999995825561427409411408007144927978515625,\"hook\":\"\"}]","footnotes":""},"categories":[175780],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-268300","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized-nn","wpbf-post"],"yoast_head":"\nJeg elsker deg, men reisen er min sjelevenn - et \u00e5pent brev - Hostelworld Travel Blog<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Kj\u00e6re kj\u00e6re: Et \u00e5pent brev til dem vi etterlater oss. 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